SAD DAY 2 // WILD CAMBODIA

Every now and then, I come across a woman who inspires me to be the change I want to see in the world. A few days ago, I met a British lass who did just that. Her name was Emma (she’s second from the left in the below pic)

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With her sun-bleached hair, freckly skin and salt-of-the-earth smile, it was obvious this English Rose wasn’t afraid of a little hard yakka in the great outdoors. Emma was a woman after my own Australian heart. Dedicating her time and talents to a wildlife sanctuary in regional Cambodia, she’d kindly invited us to get our hands dirty and shadow her for the afternoon.

After a quick exchange of hellos ‘n’ hugs, we jumped in the Colonel and followed Emma’s scooter to the sanctuary. During the dusty trip, I started thinking about the cool creatures I was going to meet – species I’d never encountered before. I was “ants in my pants” excited and couldn’t wait to feed the elephants, cuddle baby bears and challenge my fear of monkeys.

But, as we parked our vehicles and started chatting to Emma about her work, the sanctuary took on a different vibe. It sounded like its residents experienced challenging living standards, which Emma was working hard to improve. I must admit, the modest set up made the zoos back home look like palaces.

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The sanctuary also stimulated conversations about the treatment (and trading) of Cambodian wildlife on a broader scale. I was compelled to do a little research, so I could understand the situation better. But first, the elephants needed their daily fix of fruit, attention and affection.

As Emma handed the leathery giants whole banana trees, we saw their unique personalities come through – the female did a coy tap dance as she gently chomped away on her snack while the male asserted his strength, confidence and dominance. Their natural tendencies came out to play, as neither elephant had been trained.

The experience made me think about the countless tourists I’d seen riding elephants throughout Thailand and Cambodia. A decade or so ago, I was one of those tourists. My mum and I enjoyed a girls’ getaway in Phuket and, like many others, we thought elephant rides were a must-try local experience. We were thrilled to give it a go – it was the stuff of dreams. I couldn’t wait to get back to my friends and tell them all about it.

After visiting the sanctuary in Cambodia and researching things a bit more, I realised how wrong we were. Our actions supported the unnatural and, possibly, cruel treatment of elephants. It’s now impossible for me to ignore the chains around their ankles and lack of shade above their heads, as they wait to be fitted with weighty saddles. There’s something really unsettling about the image. I’d also read that many operators deprived their elephants of sleep and food to “break” and train them. There was no way I’d be participating in an elephant ride again.

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Next, Emma took us to meet the hornbills. I’d never been a fan of birds. I was convinced they hated human affection and would “beak me to bits” if I ever got too close. The hornbills at the sanctuary certainly taught me a lesson. They were like energetic puppy dogs with feathers. The female kept nuzzling my hand and dropping her paw paw in front of me – the bird wanted to play fetch?! The same piece of fruit went back and forth about a dozen times before I tore myself away. I didn’t want to get too attached.

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Next, it was time to meet the resident gibbon. Emma had a soft spot for him and it wasn’t hard to see why. The expression in his glassy eyes was enough to break anyone’s heart. He seemed to crave human attention, putting his hand through the cage so he could hold Emma’s fingers. He didn’t want her to leave.

I’d read some eye-opening articles about the illegal trade of monkeys in Cambodia. The intense poverty in this country is undeniable, with 20% of Cambodians living below the poverty line. As such, some view the local wildlife as a resource to be used for commercial benefit. Traders have been known to pack their vehicles with over a hundred monkeys, often putting them on ice. That way, if they died while being exported, the meat would stay fresh. It’s hard to comprehend.

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Next, we wandered over to the bear enclosure, which housed two cubs. They were possibly the cutest things I’d ever seen! As they rolled around on their backs, juggling mangoes between oversized paws, we were able to tickle them behind the ears. I had to hold myself back from picking one up and smothering it in cuddles. It was hard to believe poachers used these glorious creatures for bait, tying sharp metal rings around their necks and making them cry out in pain so their mothers would come to the rescue. Bear fur was big business.

So it seemed, all of the creatures at this sanctuary were vulnerable to mistreatment or worse. They (or their parts) were in high-demand, especially throughout China and Vietnam. Hunting down rare delicacies, animal “remedies”, tourism opportunities and exotic accessories sounded like a lucrative game.

If only there was an obvious way to put a stop to it all – I’m not sure education and sustainable commercial avenues are enough. While it’s heart-warming to meet people like Emma who are fighting for the health and safety of the animals, it seems like bigger picture issue is a relentless battle. I guess all I can do is tuck into more research, promote awareness of the hard facts and figure out how I can help.

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SAD DAY 2 // WILD CAMBODIA

HAPPY DAY 14 // THE TEMPLES OF ANGKOR

The clock struck four, when Ben’s phone told us it was time to get our butts out of bed. Today was a special day, so I wasn’t in my usual pre-breakfast zombie-like state. Despite the fact that it was closer to my bedtime than my usual waking time, I felt energised. The infamous Angkor Wat was waiting for us.

After a quick tuk-tuk ride and the usual ticketing booth formalities, we commenced the walk towards that enchanting, world-renowned silhouette, our anticipation building with each step. The deep beat of jungle drums drifted through the air, setting the mood perfectly. The impressive crowd of tourists was in a quiet trance-like state, waiting for the stage lights to switch on and the star attraction to make itself known. For now, Angkor Wat was sitting in the shadows, lit only by a thin lip of burnt orange and fuschia. And so we waited…

As we ensconced ourselves in the dewy grass and sat back with our sugar-loaded coffees, the sun slowly came out to play. The glassy dam between us and the Mother of all Temples captured her reflection in all of its glory. As Angkor Wat rose from her slumber, it seemed like she’d brought a mirror to her face just to make sure everything was in order before we snapped away like crazed paparazzi.

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After the big moment had come and gone, it was time to enter the gates of Angkor Wat and take a closer look. She was more magnificent than I’d imagined – like a long-limbed lady covered in ornate henna tattoos. Her walls and corridors stretched far and wide, every inch of them covered in curious engravings, stunning motifs and precious sculptures.

The wave of tourists quickly dissipated, as people wandered off in different directions and got lost amongst the endless network of hallways and doorways. The architectural symmetry was simply genius, messing with my head like a giant mirrored maze. Every way I looked and turned, there was a stunning, rustic frame staring back at me. It was a photographer’s paradise.

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Soon it was time to move on to Bayon, the next temple in our tour. We went on the hunt for our tuk-tuk driver, which proved to be a serious challenge. The carpark looked like it was hosting a tuk-tuk rally. At this point, we realised we should have photographed our driver and his vehicle before wandering off.

Eventually we heard our voices being called in the distance – once lost, we’d been found. After a short drive, our team of three was delivered to the doorstep of Bayon, which captured our attention immediately. Decorated with 126 mammoth faces, it’s thought to be a narcissistic shrine to King Jayavarman VII, the mastermind behind the Temples of Angkor. Witnessing the majesty of his vision, I couldn’t help but think he had the right to be pleased with himself.

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Next, it was time to tackle the popular Temple of Ta Prohm. A perfect union between divine ruins and mother nature, it was nothing short of spectacular. The roots of the silk-cotton trees had grown through the temple walls like veins keeping a heart alive. I could see why Tomb Raider had been filmed here. The atmosphere was truly magical. I found myself being transported back to the 12th Century, when Ta Prohm had housed hundreds of dancers, high priests, gold, pearls, silks and beyond. It sounded like a dream.

Over the course of the next couple of hours we went on to view a few more historic sites. They were all dwarfed by Angkor Wat and its cool cousins. As my husband put it, “It’s hard to get excited by foreplay after sex.” Having said that, watching the sun rise over Angkor Wat proved to be a memorable, must-see moment. In hindsight, we should have bought a three-day pass, so we could better appreciate the lesser known attractions and work our way up to the main event.

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To complete our once-in-a-lifetime experience of Angkor Wat, we decided to see the grounds from a different perspective – “gibbon view”. I’d been craving an adrenalin rush for a while and Flight of the Gibbon sounded right up my alley. Guiding us through a series of sky-high zip lines, tree houses and bridge walks, it certainly got my heart pumping. I’m usually good with heights, but when our tiny 150m-high platform started swaying in the wind, I quickly conjured up an escape plan. Surely jumping towards the nearest branch and holding on for dear life would save me?

After three hours of flying between the trees, our group finally had the swing of things. I was racing across the barely-there bridges and dangling from the wires like a pro-gibbon – no sweat. I could see why Flight of the Gibbon was killing it on Trip Advisor. The experience was the right kind of challenging and certainly thrilling, offering a change of pace to the temple tours. And, by the end of the day, I was all “templed out”.

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HAPPY DAY 14 // THE TEMPLES OF ANGKOR

HAPPY DAY 13 // EXPLORING THE MARKETS, MEKONG AND THE MYSTICAL

Visiting the Killing Fields of Choeung Ek was a gut-wrenching experience. It was hard to believe that around 25% of Cambodians were killed during the brutal reign of Pol Pot and the Khmer Rouge, and the mass genocide commenced merely a month after my husband was born. Bones and fragments of clothing were still visible in the soil, giving us a sharp glimpse of the indescribable horror. It all seemed too fresh.

After our tour of the Killing Fields, we hurried back to the vibrancy of central Phnom Penh to remind ourselves how far the country and its people had come. We hit up the highly regarded Central Market, which is located in and around an epic dome structure that’s hard to miss. Here, we found everything from technicolour wigs and glitzy bling to fru fru frocks and fake watches. But the best part was undoubtedly the food market.

The pungent aroma of unrefrigerated meat mixed with local spices hit us before the wild visual. Mountains of exotic fruit, fresh seafood, colourful grains and unrecognisable proteins – I couldn’t decide what to inspect first! After an hour of being laughed at by the stall holders (“Haha! Why lady take fifty photo of my shrimp? Crazy tourist-lady!”), we sat down for a quick bite to eat. Unsure of the meat products contained within our dumplings and soups, we decided not to think about it and simply tuck in. They were delicious.

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To end the day, we made our way to the esplanade and hopped on a sunset cruise along the Mekong River. It only set the three of us back $20 USD in total and we had the boat all to ourselves for an hour. It was a perfect way to escape the hustle and bustle of Phnom Penh and see the city from another perspective.

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The next morning, it was time to pack our bags and make the journey to Siem Reap. The 8-hour road trip was bumpy, dusty and eye-opening. My brain was ticking the entire way, as I watched the hard-working men, women, children and animals along the highway. I found myself wishing I had time to stay with a rural family for a while, so I could understand their lives better. It looked like a tough gig.

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As the sun set on another day we sluggishly rolled into Siem Reap, sweaty and coated in Cambodian dirt. The place was lit up like a Christmas tree and seemed to host a hotel for every tourist…and there were a lot of tourists. If this was anything to go by, Angkor Wat was going to be heaving in the morning!

HAPPY DAY 13 // EXPLORING THE MARKETS, MEKONG AND THE MYSTICAL

SAD DAY 1 // THE KILLING FIELDS IN CAMBODIA

Thought for the day: there are no words.
Location: Cheung Ek Killing Fields (outskirts of Phnom Penh).
More info: click here.


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SAD DAY 1 // THE KILLING FIELDS IN CAMBODIA

HAPPY DAY 12 // A FIRST TIMER IN PHNOM PENH

After seven weeks on the road, we finally encountered a couple of hiccups. Unfortunately, they struck at the end of a long day of driving, in a city which seemed to have no road rules and a lot of people, we encountered a couple of hiccups.

It took us two hours to navigate the mad streets of Phnom Penh and find our hotel…which turned out to be right where we started our hunt from and fully booked out. I learnt two things: #1 Agoda bookings take a while to reach reception, #2 some of the streets in Phnom Penh are split and a lot longer than maps suggest.

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FOCUSING ON THE POSITIVES…

Much to our delight, the hotel owned another establishment just down the road…and it had a spare bed. Our new abode happened to be right on the Mekong River and around the corner from what appeared to be a vibrant 24/7 red light district. Awesome!

After an “interesting” night’s sleep in party central, we took to the streets to explore the local area. The Royal Palace happened to be close by and it turned out to be truly spectacular. The guards and monks politely smiled for photos. Local children and pigeons played in the front forecourt, which was hot enough to cook eggs on. It felt like a happy place.

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Next, we discovered a glorious relic, perhaps the most beautiful building we’d seen throughout our trip so far. As we investigated its walls a little closer, they offered tales of horror from a bygone era. Bullet marks were peppered all over the place. Over the next few days, we’d undoubtedly learn more about their source.

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After another couple of hours exploring Phnom Penh by foot, we’d had enough of the heat and decided to down some cocktails. We hit up the Foreign Correspondents’ Club, which offered a perfect view of the river and street theatre below. It also turned out to be a great spot for meeting other friendly travellers.

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To finish off the day, we enjoyed dinner at “Friends Restaurant“. It had come recommended to us, and for good reason. Not only did it serve delicious meals which reminded us of home, it was also established to support and train marginalised youth. After our bellies were filled to the brim, we ventured next door to their retails shop. Most of the items had been hand-crafted by local parents, who needed money to keep their children in school. So, I treated myself to a much-needed travel bag and started the journey back to the comfort of my hotel room. I had nothing to complain about, really.

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HAPPY DAY 12 // A FIRST TIMER IN PHNOM PENH

HAPPY DAY 11 // THE ROAD TO PHNOM PENH

This morning, my backyard was a precious beach off the North Eastern Coast of Thailand. We’d left Bangkok late the day before and decided to pitch a tent around sun down. That call placed us in this unknown destination, which turned out to be our favourite pseudo camping spot yet.

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As we wearily rolled our Rover onto the sand, the unexpected sound of singing filled the air. It appeared a jovial group of Thais were engaged in a drunken karaoke session. They were belting out the lyrics to “My Heart Will Go On” in their Thai-English accents. It was enough to send us over the edge and into fits of laughter. It’d been a long day.

The next morning, we woke to the soothing sound of the waves. We had a quick bath in the warm ocean, as the local kids curiously watched on. After a lazy start to the day, we finally hit the road again and made our way towards the Cambodian border followed by Phnom Penh. 

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Over the course of the day, we whizzed past a some spectacular sites. I was like a kid on her first road trip – glued to the car window, eyes wide open. Floating fishing villages were proudly on display, with vibrant colours giving their communities a beautiful energy. Entire families were working the land alongside water buffalos. It was all new to me. Exciting to watch.

I wondered what Phnom Penh was going to be like. Let’s just say it was a shock to the system. I’ll explain why in my next blog.

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HAPPY DAY 11 // THE ROAD TO PHNOM PENH

HAPPY DAY 10 // FROM LUXURY TO LAND ROVER

As the sun took to the sky for another day, I enjoyed my last moment of bliss in a boudoir fit for a Queen. In my semi-awake state, I could feel myself wandering halfway between dreamland and the real world. My body was entangled in a decadent doona, relishing the soft embrace…I wanted the moment to last forever.

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Unfortunately, my conscious mind was taking over and the knowledge it was my last day at the Shangri-La Hotel in Bangkok was starting to sink in…“Time to hit the road and live out of a Land Rover again!”

But, before I got my camper girl on again, I was going to stay in the land of luxury for as long as possible…until 12:30 to be precise. Breakfast became a 3-hour affair, which eventually ebbed into lunch. They offered savoury options for every possible ethnic preference after all, and I hated the thought of the leftovers going to waste!

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Before I knew it, the time had come to pack up my makeshift office at the breakfast bar and prepare to leave Bangkok. As I waved goodbye to the impeccably dressed Shangri-La staff, they gave me a parting gift of beautiful smiles. I’m convinced Thai people have the best in the world. They smile from the heart and through their eyes.

I’m sure the Cambodians will be just as delightful. Now it’s time to find out and make the 800km journey to Phnom Penh. But first, I need to tackle the inner city madness of Bangkok!

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HAPPY DAY 10 // FROM LUXURY TO LAND ROVER